What You Need to Know about Divorce

The institution of marriage is a beautiful thing. It is wonderful seeing two people come together who are in love with each other. However, not every wedding leads to a fairy tale marriage. Sometimes marriages, for a variety of reasons, are not able to survive and getting a divorce is the best option. If you find yourself in a situation where divorce is the last resort, consider the following factors to help you through the process:

Think Big

One of the most important factors to remember is to think about the big picture if you are getting a divorce. In times of stress it is really easy to make decisions without considering the long term implications. During the course of a divorce a person may lose sight of their financial future, their parenting goals and their new found singleness. They may make a decision in the process of the proceedings and later wonder how they arrived there. It is best to be patient with the process and consider different viewpoints before making rash decisions about children, the home, and other assets. Divorce can be a difficult process, and it is best to think of the big picture of what you need after the process is over.


Another factor to consider during a divorce proceeding is being honest. This honesty needs to be to yourself about how your life will look now that your marriage is dissolving. This honesty also needs to stretch to your children and how the divorce will impact your parenting plans if you have children. Furthermore, you need to be honest with your legal representation. If you are not honest about your desired outcomes and goals then you will not end up in the best possible position. Honesty with yourself and others can help make a challenging situation a bit less difficult.


Additionally, you will want to note shared valuables, insurance policies and any pre-existing legal documents to your representation so that your share of the estate is documented fairly. Consider taking photos or a video of your assets so that they can be recorded and accounted for.


Lastly, one of the most important decisions in proceeding with a divorce is selecting an attorney to represent you. With Andrews & Arbenz you will find great representation, a wealth of experience and a strong background in helping our clients. We are a firm dedicated to helping you through this process and provide excellent representation. Contact Andrews & Arbenz for your divorce attorney needs.